HARD LINES & FIRST RULES OF PLAY

 

 

SAFE WORDS

Safe words are discussed prior to every session (I use RGY color) along with hard line limits and a brief review of our session.  I will always immediately respect your safe word and honor your hard lines, but you should expect to be pushed and brought to that limit.

 

CLEANLINESS

I require all slaves & sissies to have impeccable personal hygiene and be showered, shaved, trimmed and groomed. This includes genitals and asshole.  In case you do not know how to do that, get a razor, run a bath, spread your legs and cheeks, then shave.  I also require everyone to wear a chastity device while in My presence.  If u do not own one, let Me know in advanced and one will be provided for you.  Do not wear overpowering cologne or perfumes.  If you own your own dildo, paddle, torture tool, body encasement, etc. that you would like me to use on you make sure they have been cleaned and disinfected before our session.  I take special effort in keeping all of my torture devices sterilized and disinfected.  They will be properly ready for our play. 

 

SISSIES, SLUTS & FEMS

I take Feminization, Slut Training & Sissy Domination very seriously.  Sissies who are accepted into training will be expected to acquire their own lingerie, dresses, panty hose, make-up and other Feminine clothing/products to bring to our sessions. There are plenty of places online where you can purchase these items.  If discretion is an issue I suggest getting a PO Box where you can have your items delivered.  If storage is an issue, we can discuss options. 

MY HARDLINES

-No adult baby training, diapering, breast-feeding or bottle feeding.  No baby play.

-No feces/scat.  I have very strict guidelines to anal play and pegging.   You will be required to make sure your bowels have been emptied and washed (enema) prior to our session.  This must be taken care of before we meet.  You will not empty your bowels in My presence or in My toilet.  You will be required to clean and disinfect all surfaces and dispose of any waste at the end of our session.

-No blood sports, cutting, blood letting, real or faux stabbings or things of that nature.

-If you ejaculate or seep by accident or on purpose you will clean and disinfect contaminated surfaces.

-You do not get to touch Me unless given specific instruction to do so like massaging my feet.

-I do not offer prostitution or fondling of my breasts, bottom or genitalsI will not tolerate sexual advances or lechery.

-No Age Play.  I do not do incest scenes.

-No wrestling, boxing etc.  I am not an Amazon.

-No topping from the bottom.  Although there are many things I can learn from an experienced slave/sissy, once we begin our session, I am the expert and boss.  Topping from the bottom results in session termination and black-listing.  I do all I can to make sure I understand who you are and what you expect from our session prior to our meeting.    

If you absolutely need to break session use your safe word, and we can have a brief discussion.  However I do not take kindly to slave/subs attempting to dictate and direct the session.  I view this as a form of disrespect.

-No Edge Play.  I only provide RACK play with slaves I know very well.

MEDICAL CONDITIONS & HEALTH

It is extremely important that you divulge any health or medical conditions and disabilities you may have along with medications you take and care you are receiving.  It is not my intent to risk jeopardizing your health or quality of life.  Sessions can be very stern and will cause pain.  You may feel shamed, humiliated, stressed, embarrassed and vulnerable.  You may also experience intense arousal and pass in and out of 'sub-space'.  These fluctuating physical states and emotions can affect health issues so again, take responsibility for your health and our session will be both safe and memorable.

 

REQUEST TO SERVE

Slaves etc. are required to submit a Request to Serve application for consideration.  This helps Me learn more about you and to plan our sessions.  See 'Request to Serve' page to submit your application.  Please note:  I do not automatically grant sessions per request.  I need to assess our compatibility first.  This is achieved by a.) Filling out a 'Request to Serve' form and/or b.) An informal in-person meeting as well as follow-up emails and/or texts.

 

MORE SESSION INFO

         Payments:  I accept payments through CashApp.   If you do not have CashApp, you will have to                         download and install it.  My CashApp is $jenacblack.  In order to be put on My calendar, I require $75.00           deposit.  Please see 'Rates'.

         Communications:  I prefer to communicate on Kik.  If you do not have it, you will need to download it .               The beauty of Kik is you can hide the messaging service anywhere on your phone and if need be,                   delete all contents. It gives real time delivery and response info.  You can reach Me on Kik @ jenacblack.

      Cancellation Policy:  DO NOT schedule a session if you are not 99% certain you will be able to keep 

         that date.  Should you absolutely need to reschedule do so as soon as possible.  Do Not wait until 

         right before our appointment.  You get one reschedule, after that another deposit of $75.00 is required.             Do Not be late.  If there are issues out of your control ie traffic etc. I expect you will call right away.                   Subordinates who are late, do NOT receive the $50.00 deposit deduction.  Cancel more than twice                     or be a no call/no  show and you will NOT be scheduled again.  A no call/no show will earn you                         membership on the blacklist as a time-waster.  To unlock ur blacklist $200.00.  

         My Play Space:   I session in a domestic environment in the immediate Western Suburb of Minneapolis. 

         I have a little dirty make-shift dungeon in My basement.  Occasionally, I allow certain subs to serve Me           in My private living quarters according to their position.  I can also rent dungeon space if needed.

         Attire:  I like to dress for most sessions.  I expect my slaves to session nude and my sissies & sluts to

         dress to impress in accordance to their proper position.  In public I make no exception, except the                       nude issue, then I expect subs to dress as I instruct.

         Communication:  The bottomline 'success' of our engagement is based upon honest communication                   no matter how difficult that may be for you.  Your traditional male ego has no place in My World or                   in any BDSM play.  If you do not provide me with honest communication, from the moment you first

         contact me until the end of our session, there is a good chance you will be left feeling bereft and       

         confused.  Never attempt to impress Me by accepting more pain or kink than you can honestly                           handle.  This is very crucial since My sadistic nature tends to be heavy handed.  But this is especially               important during our first sessions.  If you fail to communicate or use your safe-word out of fear,                       insecurity or ego, you can rightfully consider yourself the biggest failure of all.